Sunday, July 25, 2010
QUILT-ZILLA IS COMPLETE! Also, bye Wisconsin.
I spent...hmm...roughly 18-20 hours driving between Tuesday and Saturday, and I'll be in the car for a 3 hour drive to the airport tomorrow. I was blessed to see many wonderful friends...so good. The week also included:
Eating sushi for the very first time (stickier than I assumed...)
Searching for a match on State Street to light a cupcake candle
A poem about an onion
Driving in the rain & fog & sunshine
Going for coffee and consuming no coffee at all
Dilemmas involing the La Crosse Family Restaurant
Home-made bread and one absolutely good-natured baby
Pancakes in taxidermy central
A new baby, new paint, and introducing a small child to the word "whack" (not pertaining to the baby)
Getting an impromptu bath during a hibachi/teppanyaki dinner
Giggling at stick-on mustaches
Washing the same white pants two days in a row
Crazy woman glasses
A family picnic
Neon ugly step sisters
Lots of hugs & good-byes
Last night in Wisconsin for a lonnnng time. Stars and moon, I like you from this side of the world. Looking forward to seeing you yet another way. : )
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Packing...
Oh. My. Goodness.
I totally stink at packing. I know many of the rules of Good Packing, such as:
-Roll your clothes
-Put heavy things at the bottom of your bag
-Cram socks (or, in my case, skeins of yarn) wherever they'll fit
-Etc, etc, etc
However, when it comes to minimalism, I'm kind of a failure. I know that in theory, there is absolutely no reason for me to need eight sweaters in Singapore. Hello? It's hot there. But I like the green one and the red one and the white one and the other white one and...do you see the problem here? Something tells me I really need to work on my clothing coordination skills. Very soon.
Friday, July 16, 2010
RAFT Building 101
While I was at PFO (which I now realize I never explained...) we had a wonderful talk on leaving your home country, along with several on moving to a new place, entering a new culture, etc. One very important concept covered in this session was the necessity of building yourself a good RAFT.
Very quickly, the "R" stands for reconciliation: if you've got issues with somebody, it's important to resolve them before moving away. The "A" is for affirmation, or letting your special people know just how awesome they are. The "F" is for farewells and "T" is for Think Destination.
I'm in a crazy combo circle of affirmations, farewells, and - you bet - I've got Singapore on the brain almost 24-7. Last night I had dinner and three great hours of conversation with a long-time friend (Hannah A., if you're reading, you're fabulous!). This weekend I'll be saying good-bye to several relatives (after driving 8 hours together, maybe we'll want to say good-bye?). And next week...well, it's going to be a little insane - but maybe in the best bittersweet way possible.
You can thank David C. Pollock and Ruth E. Van Reken, authors of the book Third Culture Kids: The Experience of Growing Up Among Worlds, for the RAFT concept.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Friday, Friday
There was also a meeting on our health insurance. Guess who stayed wide awake.
What else, what else? My favorite part of this whole experience is still the people. You automatically have something in common with every person you meet: 1.) they're all Christians and 2.) they're all involved with teaching overseas. You have this instant connection with just about anybody - it's pretty fabulous!
I think we have praise and worship in the morning - excited. I kind of wish we'd sing something in a language other than English, but that's okay. Yae Su Sa Rang Hae Yo (sorry, can't do Hangul) has been stuck in my head all day...I doubt we'll be singing it here, but I'd be thrilled if we did!
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
PFO - I'm Here!
HOWEVER - nobody needs (or probably wants) to hear about the trials of me picking out font colors. I have indeed sucessfully travelled to Pre-Field Orienation and with two days behind me, it's been a blast! I think the most fabulous thing so far has been being able to meet all of the wonderful people I've been communicating with via email, skype, and facebook in person: member care people, home office staff, and especially members from my very own team in Singapore (and what an awesome team of people they are!). Blessings abound.
We sleep in classrooms on cots (surprisingly comfy) and have attended most of our meetings in the auditorium (reminds me of high school). Everywhere you go, smiles and introductions are everywhere (Urbana, anyone?). I'm awash in thoughts of a hundred very good things and am already learning so much: we've just breached diving into new cultures and this afternoon we spent a few hours going over one of my most favorite personality assessments, the Myers-Briggs. It's been awesome discussing the featured traits with other people and especially the coping skills we develop out of our needs to succeed, conform, and build new and/or lasting relationships. If you're ever bored, I could babble about that for, well, quite awhile.
There's much, much more I could start writing about (good food, waking up extremely early, the awesome story of how NICS started [ask me about that!] and all the fabulous people I've been able to meet)...but I think this is enough.
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Baggage
When I went to France, I - being ever so clever - thought a rolling duffel was the smartest thing in the world, since it would be compact when unpacked. Try rolling the thing up and down the steps in the Metro - not so fun (especially after it lost a wheel...)! Of course I could have just carried it...except that I'd overpacked the thing to the point of it being excessively unmanagable. I think there must be an art to duffel packing: I imagine it's got to be perfectly balanced so that it's liftable and yet doesn't tip over when upright.
In addition to that smart move, I also brought a smaller shoulder bag as my carry-on, as well as a laptop case...which was all fine and dandy until I had to carry both through multiple airports.
Suffice it to say that I have developed a keen appreciation for handles, wheels, and a bag's ability to stay upright, intact, and under the airline's weight restriction when crammed full of my worldly possessions. Also, for colors other than black, black, and more black.
So...today consisted of trips to multiple stores (including three separate trips to two different Kohls stores) and a fair amount of somewhat unnecessary online comparison. Add in a trip through the check-out five minutes before closing time and an additional online purchase, and my luggage-buying is over...I hope.
On the upside, everything was on sale and I had coupons. Also, the luggage area is right across from the footwear department in Kohls, and I found some great shoes. Skippity-do-dah!
Friday, June 4, 2010
Moving...and indulging
Dad and Buddy in the U-Haul (which was as tightly packed as possible).
Apparently, bringing masses of stuff into my parents' home prompted them to get rid of a fair amount of things themselves - namely, old furniture. Reallly old furniture...the sort even Good Will doesn't want. Nothing a fire pit and a burning permit can't fix. It also gave my two youngest sisters an opportunity to burn up some old homework - I'm all for recycling, but letting the occasional horrible geometry test go up in flames is okay with me.
The flames got MUCH bigger. It reminded me of tales of the infamous InterVarsity guys' manly bonfire...or whatever they called it. As a girl, I was never allowed to go - but I heard about the quest for old furniture and the questionable inclusion of baking products.
The last few days have been a lot quieter. There's been time to relax, read, catch up, reflect...and indulge. Yesterday my sister Jamie and I had a little sisterly bonding time while getting pedicures - definitely worth the cheap-o beauty school rates!
Guess who can't tan? And yes...we're 100% related!